tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812615523703064594.post256969023927702028..comments2024-03-01T20:33:41.486+01:00Comments on Contemplating the divine: Femdom and story-tellingServitorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03432731500656198702noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812615523703064594.post-78738657750062502662021-01-16T10:21:35.780+01:002021-01-16T10:21:35.780+01:00Shame you deleted, but thank you for commenting. ...Shame you deleted, but thank you for commenting. If you'd rather your name simply didn't appear on the blog, let me know as I can delete permanently.<br /><br />Best wishes<br /><br />SServitorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03432731500656198702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812615523703064594.post-6624592800824852872021-01-13T21:37:54.357+01:002021-01-13T21:37:54.357+01:00This comment has been removed by the author.Costas N. Kouremenoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11558773262829003157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812615523703064594.post-48872487381047574592021-01-13T10:46:20.669+01:002021-01-13T10:46:20.669+01:00Well indeed. Femdom is no laughing matter, as my ...Well indeed. Femdom is no laughing matter, as my SO occasionally sternly reminds me - except, of course, when it is because she says so.<br /><br />Best wishes<br /><br />SServitorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03432731500656198702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812615523703064594.post-6184578841553698642021-01-13T10:44:50.529+01:002021-01-13T10:44:50.529+01:00Many thanks, Zoe. I enjoy your comments on them t...Many thanks, Zoe. I enjoy your comments on them too. One could probably debate for a while which of my postings is more realistic and which more fantastical. I like to think that all of them are realistic somewhere, in some better-run universe than ours.<br /><br />Best wishes<br /><br />SServitorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03432731500656198702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812615523703064594.post-62076623387792475472021-01-13T10:41:00.394+01:002021-01-13T10:41:00.394+01:00Many thanks, Mr A. Indeed, it's a topic that ...Many thanks, Mr A. Indeed, it's a topic that deserves further study although regrettably the hang-ups of our society would probably make it difficult for the holder of a PhD in pornography studies to conduct a job market presentation on their thesis.<br /><br />That said, academia has become so fragmented and desperate for novelty that there is an academic version of Rule 34 - if it exists Servitorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03432731500656198702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812615523703064594.post-9650106436632318642021-01-12T13:10:40.452+01:002021-01-12T13:10:40.452+01:00And of course there is a lot of humour. I find my...And of course there is a lot of humour. I find myself smiling, if not laughing at some of your captions. Not laughing out loud of course, that wouldn't be allowed and might be thought disrespectfulMelissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17064157468131716574noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812615523703064594.post-34848433410550700182021-01-10T18:12:23.633+01:002021-01-10T18:12:23.633+01:00Original commenter here, thanks for your reply.
Tr...Original commenter here, thanks for your reply.<br />True there exists sadistic fantasies but they tend to be in what are often referres to as 'the darker corners' of the web, but I see them too as an insertion fantasy, just for a slightly disturbed audience.<br />As anyone with a browser knows, there is porn for everything, and the ease of making and distributing content in the digital Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812615523703064594.post-34525813949324532402021-01-10T14:36:40.937+01:002021-01-10T14:36:40.937+01:00I enjoy your posts because they are so imaginative...I enjoy your posts because they are so imaginative and sometimes quite surprising. I prefer those based on real life rather than fantasies and especially female led marriages.<br /><br />Keep up the great work, Servitor.<br /><br />ZoeJDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03406712291540148910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812615523703064594.post-17595513137656019142021-01-10T11:25:26.324+01:002021-01-10T11:25:26.324+01:00'Face slapping', even, although 'faces...'Face slapping', even, although 'faces lapping' sounds all right too, if done in a manner that doesn't break Rule 18.Servitorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03432731500656198702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812615523703064594.post-19079715453803080652021-01-10T11:24:06.110+01:002021-01-10T11:24:06.110+01:00Yes, that's certainly what I'd like to thi...Yes, that's certainly what I'd like to think, Femsup. Femdom-oriented males are simply smarter than those without that kink (perhaps because we are intelligent enough to see what is coming to the world, and adapt our sexuality to enjoy it). While still being useless morons, compared to the superior sex, obviously.<br /><br />I am certainly more 'dramatic' in session, shrieking Servitorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03432731500656198702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812615523703064594.post-53225560041154955942021-01-10T11:16:32.651+01:002021-01-10T11:16:32.651+01:00Many thanks indeed for your extensive and insightf...Many thanks indeed for your extensive and insightful comment, Mr A.<br /><br />Yes, that makes a lot of sense. I'll resist the obvious smutty joke at the phrase 'insertion porn' but it is certainly true that a femdom scenario can be narrated to a male, in a way that a scenario involving the male as actor cannot. I doubt many women feel themselves represented or involved, as the Servitorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03432731500656198702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812615523703064594.post-87914137310381002732021-01-10T11:00:41.644+01:002021-01-10T11:00:41.644+01:00Well, I'd like to think so. A little faces la...Well, I'd like to think so. A little faces lapping for the hors d'oeuvres, then an appetiser of bondage and humiliation before the satisfying main course bent over the whipping bench. Some light foot worship to follow and then round it all off squealing through a good pegging. You can't get that at the McDonalds drive-thru.<br /><br />Best wishes<br /><br />SServitorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03432731500656198702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812615523703064594.post-8888299023394392942021-01-10T10:04:46.999+01:002021-01-10T10:04:46.999+01:00Indeed. Layers. Like an onion, or an ogre. Perh...Indeed. Layers. Like an onion, or an ogre. Perhaps there's something wrong with a universe in which there are many more ways to be cruel to someone than there are to provide sexual pleasure. But it's ever so much fun.<br /><br />Many thanks for your comment, Watson. Give my best wishes to Sherlock and (more importantly) Irene.<br /><br />Best wishes<br /><br />SServitorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03432731500656198702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812615523703064594.post-84887384072026778432021-01-10T10:02:05.222+01:002021-01-10T10:02:05.222+01:00Many thanks, Melissa.
Oh, don't worry. Nothi...Many thanks, Melissa.<br /><br />Oh, don't worry. Nothing in the above was intended to suggest that I will be stopping any time soon. Like a piece of gritty chewing gum, flattened on the bottom of the sole of a boot, I .... well, I won't explore the simile in detail.<br /><br />True about vanilla sex ending with the act. In my experience an actual session with a domme can end equally Servitorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03432731500656198702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812615523703064594.post-46559499834379076012021-01-10T02:47:48.387+01:002021-01-10T02:47:48.387+01:00Your average BDSMer is more imaginative and more i...Your average BDSMer is more imaginative and more intelligent than say your average swinger. Thus its no surprise when we start making scenarios and thinking about feelings and putting ourselves in the place of the dominant or the submissive or both. So you are exactly right we are more dramtatic.<br /><br />Femsup Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812615523703064594.post-81122696022663402912021-01-09T20:53:46.872+01:002021-01-09T20:53:46.872+01:00Femdom and it's relatives are for men that wou...Femdom and it's relatives are for men that would respond to instruction in porn with compliance, the decisions are obvious as they are largely dictated. It can't appeal in this way to someone who wouldn't comply, as they cannot immerse themselves in the experience. This constriction of the choices of the viewer (as in they will imagine themselves acting as the on-screen sub would do Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812615523703064594.post-53796678091241112562021-01-09T20:52:51.444+01:002021-01-09T20:52:51.444+01:00As a purveyor of a variety of different genres, I ...As a purveyor of a variety of different genres, I can say that having a story certainly ups the appeal of certain porn.<br />Porn essentially is insertion fiction, the viewer/reader is meant to desire to be a part of the fiction. This does not necessarily require a structure or narrative, but it becomes easier to immerse yourself in the fantasy when the character makes the same decisions that theAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812615523703064594.post-68677148013730996992021-01-09T19:58:56.444+01:002021-01-09T19:58:56.444+01:00Yes , agree absolutely. It's like savouring a ...Yes , agree absolutely. It's like savouring a 5 course meal vs grabbing a quick takeaway of whatever's there.m_gameboyhttps://ffollowingblindly.bdsmlr.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812615523703064594.post-82584291534869458572021-01-09T13:10:57.972+01:002021-01-09T13:10:57.972+01:00Yes, absolutely! There are endless layers to F/m (...Yes, absolutely! There are endless layers to F/m (power, control, greed, mental/emotional masochism/sadism...on and on.) watsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12594549375302645203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812615523703064594.post-63392029314859059862021-01-09T12:25:15.145+01:002021-01-09T12:25:15.145+01:00Well I am sure that I can speak for many of your f...Well I am sure that I can speak for many of your followers in saying how much I look forward to your next batch of fantasies - and those recycled ones which are always worth revisiting. One can fantasise about having heterosexual (or even homosexual) sex with a beautiful man or woman but once the act is performed, that is the end. Femdom porn, as exemplified by Servitor lead on on to "whatMelissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17064157468131716574noreply@blogger.com