Do you really want to hurt me?

Do you really want to make me cry?

Oh...say you do.

"Boots" is a surprisingly popular choice.  You can also sell the right to choose, to someone else, then just take pot luck.  Quite fun, if you're feeling adventurous.

 The picture is from The British Institution.  It's very British.  I love it.

 

Oh well.  It's been deep-fried.  How bad can it be?

 

 

Perhaps.

 The lady is of course the magnificent Hunteress (also known as Cassie Canes), and the source is indicated on the watermark.  Boris appears courtesy of SlavesForMovies Inc.

 

 

They also provide a complimentary paddle, by the minibar, and there's a shackle in the bathroom.  It's those little touches that make the difference between simply staying in a hotel and having an experience there.

 

Sounds fair.

The caption for the picture above was loosely inspired by this rather excellent video on humiliation.  You've probably already seen it, but if you haven't I recommend it.  The lady involved is...well, not exactly vanilla, but she's not femdom particularly either, as this is one of a large series of talks about various sexual practices.  But as well as talking about it, from time to time she simply slips in some actual verbal humiliation.  For some reason, the fact that she does so in such a matter of fact manner, reading from a script with cheerful interest...even the fact that the scene keeps cutting, particularly when she reaches for an inhaler because she's got a cold... all that, just adds to the humiliation for me.  I think it's lovely.  Anyway, there's a bit where she says you have to be "punished for being so bad in bed", and the phrase has stayed with me... and perhaps always will.